A lot of articles have been written about what irritates the stronger half of humanity in women. This could be makeup, clothing, style, behavior. In short, men certainly know what they don’t like. But even women have a couple of nuances that spoil their opinion about opposite field, irritate and even repel. It is about them that we decided to talk.

According to statistics, women are more accommodating than men. Therefore, they are in many ways ready to put up with the shortcomings of their lover or potential life partner. However, psychologists have identified several “masculine sides” that can significantly spoil the impression of their owner. So, What is it about men that irritates women the most??

One of the main disadvantages, according to the fair sex, is inability to keep one's promises. Despite all the independence modern women and trends in relationships, most girls still want their betrothed to be responsible for his words. After all, everyone knows the expression: a man said - a man did! If such a life principle is absent, the woman gradually ceases to trust her boyfriend, expecting another excuse from him.

Another drawback that the fair half of humanity does not like at all is excessive demands on women. Modern men want their significant other to have the appearance of a model, to be a housewife, smart and an athlete. At the same time, many representatives of the stronger sex do not correspond to this image next to them. So it turns out that a man sometimes demands the impossible from a woman. Moreover, having met a smart and pretty girl, he still manages to find some disadvantages in her.

Everyone knows that in matters of appearance, women are less demanding of men than vice versa. Still, there is one feature that can repel - this sloppiness. Many men not only do not take care of themselves, but also “let themselves go.” Unironed or, even worse, unwashed clothes, four-day stubble, dirty nails, smell - all this does not attract, only the opposite. And we must pay tribute to the woman who is still able to discern a worthy male representative behind such an appearance.

Today, very few men can say that they truly do not drink or smoke. Most do not deny themselves these bad habits. But good things should always be in moderation. Alcohol and tobacco abuse, constant partying with friends, a beer belly and the smell of alcohol on the breath are also repulsive factors for women.

The so-called male vices, according to women, include greed and arrogance. The fair half feels even greater antipathy towards men who are lazy and love to chat tirelessly. Dependence on the opinions of friends and other people around you, according to the lovely ladies, will also not please you.

Every woman has flaws, which ones bother men the most?

As we know, opposites attract. Perhaps that is why we are so fragile, feminine and so attractive to the opposite sex. Of course, there are some aspects of appearance or character traits that men would like to change in us. So, let's figure out what they don't like most about women? Let's alphabetize women's shortcomings.

A– aggressive style of clothing (unisex), makeup, hairstyle (haircuts are too short), actions... Women are similar to the stronger sex in their appearance and behavior. As you know, opposite charges attract, and unipolar charges, alas, repel.

B- a crowded wardrobe. And at the same time, men often hear the phrase: “Darling, I have absolutely nothing to wear...”

IN- vulgarity, which can manifest itself in too much bright colors clothes. In addition, red lipstick on the lips, a thick layer of “plaster” on the face, a strong aroma of perfume, shiny “dangle” earrings, etc.

G– bare tummy and no waist. It seems that it is impossible to distinguish where the waist ends and the hips begin.

D– diet. Repeat to your loved one and everyone around you about the diet, and at night “attack” the refrigerator and empty it clean.

E- food. If a woman doesn’t know how to cook, then this sometimes negates perfect figure, grooming. After all, as they say: the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

AND- affectation. For some reason, women always like to play hard to get and to inflate their worth.

Z- stash. For some reason, the nest egg is spent not on new fishing gear or car parts, but on a dress or new shoes, of which there are already hundreds in the wardrobe.

AND– hysteria. Men cannot control or predict this hurricane of feelings, which can appear unexpectedly, which is why they most often do not like notorious “hysterics.”

TO– careerism. Some women put climbing the career ladder above personal relationships.

L– curiosity. How often it is precisely this quality of character that provokes us, women, to look for incriminating evidence in notebook or mobile phone beloved.

M- makeup on which women spend a lot of time, and men have to wait patiently for their beloved to finish applying the “maraffe”. In addition, the layer of plaster does not allow kissing.

N– extended long nails, which, it seems, ladies do not for aesthetic beauty, but for self-defense.

ABOUT- grievances. Women will always find a reason to be offended; they may not talk for hours, cherishing a feeling of resentment in their hearts. And men have to rack their brains about how to “appease” their beloved.

P– lipstick. Imagine how a man feels when he kisses a girl who has lipstick on. But scientists have proven that when a man kisses, he eats lipstick, and in decent quantities, at least 2-3 kilograms.

R– jealousy that goes beyond all boundaries and turns the weaker sex into Sherlock Holmes and Columbo’s lieutenants.

WITH– fees. They take so long that the man is already prepared and waits for his beloved to get ready, and she flutters around in a negligee and decides what underwear will suit this dress.

T- TV. Ladies watch their favorite TV series or talk shows instead of watching boxing or football.

U- reproaches. Women know how to reproach to make a man feel that he is far from perfect.

F- flirting. Representatives of the fairer sex flirt in front of their lover, which creates the patience of the chosen one like an atomic bomb, which is about to explode.

X- thinness. The woman looks like a teenager and, moreover, she often repeats that she needs to lose a little more weight.

C- cellulite. Not all men understand what it is. They cannot understand why their loved one is on a diet, works out hard at the fitness club and does not want to wear short dresses which suit her very well.

H- swagger. The beloved shows off her clothes and jewelry, spends a lot of time in the beauty salon, and then tells her friends about her “good” life.

Sh– shopping is long and exhausting, measured in dozens of boutiques. A man who has experienced something like this at least once will never again agree to go with his soulmate to buy a new dress. In addition, one purchase smoothly flows into another: you need to buy new shoes and a handbag to go with the dress.

E– emancipation. Women have well understood the meaning of this word and demand equality, although in a cafe or jewelry store they don’t mind if their loved one pays.

YU- skirts. The attitude of men towards this item of women's wardrobe is very ambivalent. Some people don’t like long skirts; they think that such outfits are appropriate in a nunnery. And others are not delighted when their beloved wears miniskirts; they believe that only they have the right to admire the charms of their beloved.

I- causticity. Hearing phrases like: “Look what a cow she is and what she’s wearing. What a terrible hair color,” women fall in the eyes of a man, he considers her primitive and narrow-minded.

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Typical shortcomings of men

The main male flaw noted by both young and old women is self-confidence of men.

Often a man loses interest in the object of his passion as soon as he achieves his goal.

A man wants to achieve too much at once. Unlike women, men are not able to fully surrender to love. Therefore, a woman should not be jealous of a man for his hobbies.

And passionate love, for example, quickly becomes boring for a sanguine or choleric person.

Men get tired of exalted love. (Example: Vronsky and Anna Karenina from the novel by L. Tolstoy.)

Untidy, not well-groomed, uncleanliness. Men's indifference to their own appearance has long become the talk of the town. Dirty socks, “fragrant” armpits, eternal unshavenness, trousers with elongated knees - the list of the costs of such carelessness can be endless.

Lack of concentration, disorganization. If a girl is next to her, she will always be late for visits and events. At the most crucial moment, for some reason he will need to barricade himself in the toilet with a fresh crossword puzzle.

Male egoism. If a young man at a party does not pay attention to his girlfriend and, having retired with the male part of the company, discusses the results of yesterday's football match, he is clearly showing male egoism. The extreme degree of this is not being interested in the needs of his partner in bed.

Alcohol abuse. This addiction causes well-deserved criticism from women. Perhaps a potential spouse needs to be tested for tolerance to strong drinks.

Stinginess. It is only during the candy-bouquet period that a man makes certain efforts to seem like a generous suitor who spares nothing for his girlfriend. When the relationship becomes established, extracting an extra penny from a man for their needs becomes a real feat for many women.

Jealousy. This trait is common to many. If not all men in general, but at the same time there are the most neglected examples - those who terrorize their missus because of any unexpected call, because of the slightest delay at work, because of minimal communication with other men at some evening. Living under eternal suspicion is not an easy fate.

Not keeping promises. As practice shows, the famous “man said, man did” is not such an ironclad rule. And they say it, and they don’t do it, and then they try to disown it. The habit of going back on your words and not keeping your promises, in principle, does not make a person beautiful, and even less so a man.

Desire to dominate. For a very long time, human civilization was structured in such a way that men always dominated in everything. They hunted, ruled, fought, earned money, and at some point completely missed the fact that many of their functions could be performed with no less success by women. This is why men perceive the fact that women also have the right to make decisions with such violent protest.

Vulgarity. Yes, this is by no means just a women’s prerogative - men are no less successful in mastering the technique of cheeky behavior. Dirty swearing, boorish antics, obscene humor and constant spitting at the feet - the picture is disgusting, but not so rare.

Habit of scratching the affected area. After sitting too long, a man likes to get up and scratch his dignity with a practiced movement. This essentially harmless habit (it is still a less negative phenomenon than alcoholism, for example) can make even the least squeamish girl wince.

Why men irritate women

• Uncleanliness:
• dirty shoes,
• dirty hair, dandruff,
• long fingernails and toenails (long nail on the little finger), dirt under the nails, rough heels,
• the smell of sweat,
• unshaven armpits.
• Painful cleanliness.
• Family panties (flowered, polka dot), soldier's.
• Sloppiness in clothing (drawn knees, etc.)
• Constantly wet, sticky palms.
• “Children’s palm”: small hands, fingers
• or vice versa: paws like a butcher's - thick, short fingers.
• Slurps at the table.
• Requires that everything stands, hangs in its place, and that there is no clutter or dust.
• He drinks a lot, is a drug addict, swears a lot.
• Beats women.
• White socks for a suit. Socks that differ in color from the color of trousers or shoes.
• Hands on tiptoe.
• Excessive shyness, constraint in actions, actions, words.
• Greed. He asks for money for a gift that is inexpensive.
• Excessive importunity, especially if not on time.
• He asks very meticulously about other men. Asks a lot of unnecessary questions.
• I am against communicating with old friends and girlfriends. Categorically prohibits anything. Owner.
• Stupid than me. Lack of intelligence, with high self-esteem.
• Can't stand up for himself. Slut. He is weaker than me morally and cannot contradict me.
• Male hysteria.
• Behaves like a “mother hen,” especially in front of people.
• Incorrect attitude towards your ex-girlfriends.
• Not frankness, meanness.
• A painful feeling of guilt in front of others and, conversely, when everyone around is to blame.
• Unnecessarily complicating problems.
• Complains of serious female neglect.
• Inattentive: does not congratulate you on holidays, does not give gifts.
• Painfully jealous.
• Pettiness in everything.
• Nerd.
• Manic concern for the health of others (he stuffs him with pills, finds doctors, consults clairvoyants)
• Not punctual: very late for a meeting.
• I myself have to figure out how we will spend our time.
• Doesn't help carry bags.
• Does not give up space in transport.
• Refuses to do any small housework: take out a bucket, peel potatoes, etc.
• The desire of a man pleases all the women around him and, in general, everyone around him.
• Showing emotions and interest in me only under the influence of alcohol.
• Inability or unwillingness to take the initiative first.
• He talks in great detail about his ex-girlfriends.
• He sits at home all the time.
• Doesn't take it with him when he meets friends (if possible).
• He complains about me to strangers, thinking that they won’t tell me about it.
• When communicating with friends, he forgets about me.
• He only remembers me when he feels bad.
• In the foreground are his friends or anyone else, but not me.
• Thinks only about sex.

Physical disabilities

Any woman, even the most beautiful one, always looks for and finds various flaws in herself. Flaws in appearance worry a woman even more than flaws in her character as a whole. But figure flaws are still easier to correct or at least hide. And the character needs to be changed, but this is a long process.

A woman usually considers small breasts, too wide hips, a long nose or chin to be a disadvantage of her appearance. For a man, all these “shortcomings” are not so important. After all, there are so many people, so many tastes. Maybe your man is a lover of women with small breasts and a proudly raised nose. In this regard, it is better to find a man who will love and appreciate you with exactly the figure that you have.

It’s another matter when a woman doesn’t take care of herself, accumulates excess fat and has completely forgotten the way to the gym. A woman in a man’s eyes may not have the perfect shape, but she must have a toned figure. The disadvantage in this case for men will be the general “negligence” of the woman: excess fat on the waist, on the arms, lack of muscle mass and extra centimeters where they should not be.

Character Flaws

The vision of women's character flaws from a man's and a woman's point of view is also completely different. A woman may consider her main shortcomings to be gullibility, excessive kindness towards those who do not deserve it, sacrifice, and others. Men find completely different female shortcomings: excessive talkativeness, laziness, lack of at least minimal logic, low level culture, shopaholism, obsession, lack of femininity in habits and behavior, hysteria or simply excessive emotionality, arrogance, inability to behave in male society, too provocative behavior in public and much more.

Men look at women's shortcomings from a slightly different angle. What women consider minor flaws are major ones for men and vice versa. There are some shortcomings that many men even like and touch. Among them are:

1. Excess weight. Many men like women and girls “in body”, despite the deep imposition by the media of a completely different type of woman. Of course, we are not talking about being completely overweight, the lack of sports in a woman’s life and flabby muscles. No one will like this.
2. Petty feminine whims and weaknesses. Most men also like these “disadvantages”, unless, of course, they go beyond the bounds of reason. Any female weakness makes a man feel like a real hero - strong and self-confident, and also prove himself.
3. A little lazy. If a woman is lazy full program, then this is, of course, unacceptable. But a little laziness has its place, because a woman who does cleaning, cooking, and shopping even on weekends is a real punishment for men.
4. Manifestation of overt sexual fantasies. Many women believe that expressing sexual desire is too much, that a man may not understand it, and that sexual liberation is a disadvantage. But in fact, many men like it when their woman shows initiative in bed and resourcefulness. For them, this is a real gift.
5. Having a small belly. Many women try to get rid of even the slightest hint of a belly, but as it turns out, they are in vain. Many men like women's small bellies; they do not like flat women at all. Moreover, the presence of such a tummy is natural, and everything that is natural cannot be ugly or ugly.

Disadvantages of wives

Very often, men, having already chosen this or that woman as their wife and agreed to put up with her feminine shortcomings, still find something that, although it seems like a trifle, can significantly spoil family relationships. Such minor shortcomings of wives include the following:

• the habit of constantly reminding oneself of oneself or controlling a man through phone calls (those who simply require additional attention remind oneself of oneself, and control is often carried out by powerful women who have the habit of keeping their finger on the pulse);
• long-term telephone conversations with friends, sisters, mother (and it doesn’t matter that at these moments a woman can redo things around the house);
• long gatherings with friends, especially nights with unmarried friends;
• the habit of pulling her husband back and making various comments to him when strangers(this is humiliating for any man);
• the desire to take your husband with you shopping, and then make him wait;
• not to take into account her husband’s opinion on this or that issue, and also not to listen to his valuable advice, thereby proving that she is the one who is right and will do it the way she wants it;
• too much emotionality and hysteria, especially over small things and in public, for example, because of a broken nail;
• reluctance to speak directly about what a woman would like, constant hints are very disliked by men and are one of the most “unloved” shortcomings.

In general, a woman who has received the status of a wife should try to look at herself from her husband’s side, through his eyes, and then she will be able to say exactly what her shortcomings are. All that remains is to eliminate them.

Psychological aspects

It is very important for a woman to understand herself, to determine her real strengths and weaknesses. The main thing is to separate what the woman herself considers a flaw, and what the man considers her to be a flaw.

Conduct a simple experiment. Ask your male friends (married and single for comparison) to think and honestly tell you what they see as a flaw in your character and appearance. You can bet your opinions will differ. For example, a woman believes that it is very good when she works, moves up the career ladder, gets a good wages and can provide for herself, but for many men such financial independence is the first step towards suppressing his own male “ego”. This is simply a denial of him as a strong male and breadwinner. The same may be true with all other “shortcomings”, because what you consider a virtue may not please a man at all. And vice versa. For example, a woman is sure that she has a long nose, which spoils her appearance, she is embarrassed by it, and is secretly considering plastic surgery, but it is this nose that makes her who she is. It is this nose that a man likes so much.

Sociologists have been puzzled by the question of what are the most common shortcomings, according to men, that women have and what traits in them, on the contrary, are most attractive to the stronger sex. Summing up the results of the sociological survey, the following picture emerged...

7 main female flaws

Spender. Housewives who are unable to properly and efficiently manage the family budget do not enjoy the respect and due authority of either their mothers-in-law or their husbands. A girl who can easily blow her entire monthly salary on her beloved in one day of successful shopping is also not attractive to a serious-minded person. young man. Therefore, sociologists advise to moderate your ardor in this direction and learn to properly and carefully spend the material resources received into the gentle hands of women...

Lover of diets. A lady languidly picking at her plate with a lone leaf of lettuce on it, or a housewife monthly “hooking up” the whole family on dietary food in the form of vegetarianism or a raw food diet - do not cause delight among the stronger half of humanity. From this we can draw the following conclusion. You need to lose weight and eat a healthy diet in silence, without particularly talking about it to others (you still won’t get praise and support) and in splendid isolation.

Getting fatter. That's how men are, fickle and contradictory in their opinions! As much as they dislike ladies on endless diets, they dislike excessive weight gain in their significant other, who once (during courtship) was “like a reed.” Therefore, ladies, look at the previous point. Your husbands and your boyfriends will always forgive you for a couple or three, at least ten extra kilograms, but I don’t think you should count on more, because men’s patience is not unlimited.

Discussing. Men really don't like it when their wives or fiancées start discussing their personal relationships with their girlfriends. And it doesn’t matter that you “just” told your girlfriends about what naive dream “your little pussy” had last night, or how much he spends toilet paper, as well as what kind of razor he uses to make his mark and how he likes to have his ears scratched. A man considers even things that are dear to your heart and harmless, in your opinion, deeply intimate and not subject to general discussion. And in some ways, it seems to us, he is right...

Kopusha. Do you have a closet full of clothes, but from time to time you exclaim: “I have nothing to wear!”? Are you one of those women who spend 2-3 hours, getting ready to meet friends or go for a walk, “making yourself feel good” in front of the mirror? Keep in mind that by doing this you are testing the patience of your neighbor. A man will wait for you even for an eternity, but deep down he will consider your slowness to be a very big drawback.

Chatterbox. Are you too talkative? Can you spend more than one hour talking on the phone with your friend? Do you love long, intimate interviews with your husband and returning to each topic of conversation for a second round? Men don’t like such “talkers”; they get tired of women’s chatter and empty talk. Therefore, you should not strain their ears so much and often. Amaze your men at least occasionally with thoughtful silence.

7 main attractive traits in a woman

1. Men love women in high heels. These ladies immediately catch their attention.
2. Men like it when a woman maintains a business style in her demeanor, image and clothing.
3. Men mentally applaud women who perfectly know the flaws of their figure and skillfully hide them, and with some elements of clothing they know how to emphasize their advantages.
4. Women! Smile! An encouraging smile on your face disarms a man and helps to establish better contact with him. Men admit that they are more likely to want to meet a smiling woman, but not one who looks gloomy or serious.
5. A woman, according to men, should be able to flirt. This should be done unobtrusively, not defiantly, but also not too feignedly modest. Let's say a gaze, challenging, lasting approximately seven seconds, then a slight smile on the face, followed by mysteriously lowering eyelids, again a flirtatious glance, thrown as if by chance and as the completion of the whole combination - switching attention to another object. Approximately such skills distinguish a truly attractive woman from an ordinary one in the opinion of men.
6. A woman must be able to LISTEN to a man. Listen with interest and due attention. It’s not stupid to assent to his conclusions, it’s not pointless to applaud his every sneeze, but to listen and UNDERSTAND what he’s talking about.
7. All of the men who were interviewed by sociologists, looking at photos of various girls, showed interest in those ladies whose legs were crossed over their legs. This sitting position of a woman is very attractive to a man in his interlocutor.