Good tone for ladies history. Rules of etiquette of a modern woman: how to behave in society. Bad manners girl

Each self-respecting girl should know the elementary rules of the etiquette that will allow it to become a real lady and leave the sea after communicating with them positive impressions. Knowing how to guide yourself to locate those whose people you consider important in your life.

1. Greeting

Rule number 1
You can heart up in different ways: kisses, handshake or just good words. The main thing is that the greeting was "heard" only by those person who is directly addressed, and not all others. Therefore, avoid deliberately loud greetings, long hugs and hot kisses.

Rule number 2.
With the verbal greeting of the boy greets with the girls first, the girls first welcome older people. If on the street, walking with the boyfriend, you met a girlfriend, which wives your own, then at the beginning you greet with your girlfriend, then your young men are with each other, and only after it is worth saying "Hi" boys.

Rule number 3.
Very embarrassing looks long pause when meeting. Do not be afraid to greet the first and follow in such situations aphorism: the first greet the one who is better raised.

2. Street etiquette

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In antiquity, when the men were on the left, the tradition was developed: the lady goes to the right of the knight. Then another rule appeared - a man must go where it is more dangerous (for example, from the side of the roadway). Modern etiquette says: the girl goes to the right in official cases, and in ordinary life as it is more convenient.

Snack on the street
Eat ice cream on the street is not sin, just for this you need to move aside, even better to sit on the park bench. But to enter public transport with food, thumbnail hot dogs and open bottles - extremely indecent.

Rained weather
If the umbrella revealed, watch it not to do other people. On the etiquette in rainy weather, the young man holds an umbrella over his head of a girl if they are one growth or he is slightly higher. If the difference in growing is large, each carries its umbrella. Or the young man goes without an umbrella. If, after the rain you enter the room, put on the umbrella cover, try to keep the umbrella closer to yourself, so you do not wet anyone.

3. Clothes
The main requirement for clothing is its purity. It is still nice, of course, take care that clothes fit the place, time, the nature of the event.
In case of doubt, it is always better to choose a slightly more conservative option. You can only put yourself in order at home or in the "Girls Room". Combed, clean your nails, straighten clothing in public places, at the table, on the street is not beautiful. Just tint lips.

4. We go to visit

You are visiting
Despite the fact that it is assumed that the "right" guests are always a bit late, the rules of etiquette is strictly rebuilt. Staying with the guests, you should not make a thorough study of the cleanliness of the house. Girls with manners should not be intently examined.
Do not look often on the clock, being visiting. If you need to go to the time other guests begin to diverge, do it imperceptibly for the rest, after apologizing to the owners.

Reception guests
Everyone thoroughly thinking in advance. The main rule - at the desk guests are invited not later than half an hour after the beginning of the party, even if not still gathered. Keep in mind that even despite the brutal attacks of hunger, the hostess is impolite to the food and eat everything first. First you must do the guests.

5. Entertainment

Movie
It's foolishly late, because, since this happened, the brought-up ladies will have to sit on the first floodplaes, even if you have the most expensive tickets in your pocket. Recall that before entering the hall, you need to turn off the mobile phone. It is also possible to laugh loudly, throw a popcorn, rustling chocolate candy and discuss the merits and disadvantages of the main character.

Theatre
If you go to the theater with a friend, you can agree on the form of clothes (you are not very in jeans in the elegant dress and young man in jeans and sweatshirt).
You can enter the lie when the light goes out. In the parquet, the amphitheater, the Belfare should take its place no later than the third call. If you are still late, then the young man goes first, and you close your back to the scene and face to sitting, trying not to make them climb.

A restaurant
In the restaurant, cafes and other similar institutions, the young man should always be first. Seving at the table, he must give you a menu and suggest choosing the first. Then he watches the menu himself and he orders the waiter for both of you.
Getting a meal when everyone bring an order. Only if awaiting your hour will offer you to start a meal, you can begin to chew before others.
Blowing on food, sniffing it, smack, and also spread the elbows on the table is not welcome. The biggest misses, worse than which can only be picking with a fork in the teeth, it is with a knife. The tablespoon is not sent in the mouth entirely. To eat painlessly soup remains, you need to tilt the edge of the plates not to yourself, but from ourselves. If you fell into an awkward situation, inadvertently shed or dropped something, do not bother immediately correct your oversight. The tablecloth wipe only the napkin, while the crumbs do not smack on the floor, but collect into the napkin. If sides of food or drops inadvertently fell on clothes, remove them unnoticed.
In the restaurant, many leads to confusion the abundance of devices. Always start with those devices that closer to the plate, and for each next dish use the device lying closer than all. When the devices lie horizontally over the plate, they are intended for dessert. With glasses easier - the waiter himself naps where it is necessary. They take them from right to left, as they cost only on one side of the table. No need to warm about glasses of hands, tightly wrap with both hands a cup with coffee, tea, and glasses with champagne and wine are taken to keep behind the leg.
Having completed, the knife and fork are put in parallel. During the break, the knife with a fork is put crosswise. In the cafe used tea bag usually set off on the saucer. And stirring sugar spoon, do not touch the edges of the cup so that there is no sound.
The account usually pays the one who invited. The waiter will bring the bill to who made the order. If you pay, noting, for example, with friends, some holiday, there is no need to demonstrate how much it was spent. Being invited, avoid two extremes: ordering the most expensive dishes and manifestations of excessive modesty.

6. In Avto.
When you sit in the car, you do not need to "join" in it first, and then the other foot. It will be much more convenient, slightly cropped on the seat, "draw" legs. Going out of the car, both legs should be simultaneously put on asphalt.

7. Untrect gestures
Try to wave less swinging with your hands while walking, fussily correct something in your clothes or hairstyle, often stir up the sleeves to look at the clock, constantly get something out of bags and pockets and snap back.

8. You are at the stadium
So, he succeeded. In the sense of drag you on a football match. Of course, to encourage your favorite team or player your direct duty, but to vote to shine, shout off the insults to playing teams and someone from the fans (from the passage not far to the scuffle) at all. If possible, do not jump from the place in the sharp moments of the game, so as not to interfere with those who are sitting from behind. Each game, the competition is a kind of art, and real connoisseurs are going to observe them. And you are one of them?

9. Shopping trip
The seller is the face of the store. Stay, entering a small shop (in the supermarket it is not necessary).
If you plan to become a regular buyer of a small shop, such as bakery in your home, it is appropriate to meet. Be desire, but unnewable. It would be nice to outline in advance, and how much you need (with a large list it is best to draw up a list) in order not to take time from other buyers and from the seller. You can only contact the seller on "you", regardless of her or its age. It looks ridiculous and tactlessly looks like an appeal "Girl" to the seller of old age (may regard as a mockery, you didn't mean it?). You do not have to make purchases only because I came to the store, you are not obliged to experience the feelings of awkwardness if nothing of the expectant you did not fit. But still it is not worth watching fittings for hours, chasing the seller there and back and forcing it to bring one thing, then another, no matter how "cool". Refusing to buy, say "Thank you" to the seller for your attention.

Some two hundred years ago, when educating girls, close attention was paid to the training of etiquette. Modern rhythm of life largely changed the morals of the Company: the rights of men and women were equal, communication was simple and relaxed. But no one has canceled etiquette for girls.

Rules of etiquette in a public place

Most of their lives are modern girls spend in public places. These are urban transport, institutions, office office and even the most common staircase or elevator. There are a number of rules of behavior that you need to know the girl in order not to be ignorant in certain situations:

• If you approached simultaneously with another person to open door And you are asked to go first, pass without ceremonies. By tradition, the strong floor is obliged to miss the weak, the younger generation should give way to the eldest, subordinate to the head. If you are the same age and social status, the door comes first to the first one who is closer to her.
• If you and a man climb along the steps, then there must be ahead of it, the exception is the steep and dark staircase. While converging down the ladder, the girl's place is for a man. You lost the road - slightly tilt the head as a sign of gratitude. If the stair marches are too narrow, give way to the road, making a small step towards, older people, women older than you, her chief.
• The elevator greet the people who are familiar to you. When you stop the elevator, release the passage to the output: if the place allows, take a step to the side, no - leave, and then go back.
• At the entrance to B. shopping center Or in any establishment, first release those who come out, and only then enter themselves. Prepare money in advance for calculating at the checkout.
• During a trip to public transport, try not to talk loudly and do not laugh, do not eat ice cream and do not look at the passengers. If you have caused someone inconvenience, you need to apologize.
• When communicating with colleagues at work, be restrained, politely, tactfully. Observe punctuality. According to the rules of business etiquette, a discussion of the personal life of employees is not allowed.
• In any public place can be in a conflict situation. On the manifestation of insults, in charge of yourself correctly and decent, as a raised girl. Do not like the abuser. Act by law.

Good manners for girls at the table

Food culture has many traditions and norms that are the rules of behavior at the table and the use of appliances for food. Each self-respecting girl should have good manners and know the etiquette rules at the table - this will allow her to confidently feel like a home environment for lunch and in a cafe and a restaurant.

The basic rules of behavior at the table:

• Use the napkin, for this, put it on your knees so that the biggest side is on top of the knees, and the top you could wipe your hands.
• During meals, do not forget about the right posture. The distance to the table should be one palm. Do not set and place your elbows on the table. Do not lower your hands under the table.
• Use the appropriate dining devices intended for a particular dish.
• Do not pull for the necessary subject (for example, for the stray), but ask for it.
• To use the toothpicks standing on the table is allowed only in the dressing room. You can also adjust makeup or hairstyle. A bad tone is the touch of hair at the table.
• For coughing or sneezing, you must leave the table.
• You can call the attendant personnel by waving your hand either nodding your head. In no case call the waiter, knocking table appliances or shouting.
• When the cutlery falls, they should not be lifted, and ask the waiter to bring clean.
• A bad tone at the table is the chatting of the legs, the licking of the fingers, chasing.

How to behave in relation to the guy?

To achieve sympathy from strong sex, girls should master the rules of etiquette that will help them in this:

• do not come to date on time: late for 15-20 minutes will allow your boyfriend to get together with thoughts and plan the coming evening;
• going on a date, do not take a big bag, as this is a sign of bad tone;
• do not let kisses on the first date - this indicates poor education;
• do not initiate the next date;
• do not meet the guy every evening;
• do not be vulgar in behavior, men like femininity and softness;
• have your opinion, guys want to see an interesting interlocutor in the girl.

Etiquette in clothes is important!

Remember that you are a beautiful floor representative. Having an impeccable look and sophisticated taste in clothes, you will be a real lady. We will pay a little attention to the lathy of clothing:

• Dress in accordance with the season and day of day. For summer, easy and bright clothes are suitable for winter - more dense. Morning clothes should be simple and low, and for the evening you can afford sequins.
• For working clothes, suits and blouses are suitable, must be put on tights, for example, body-colored. They can wear with any clothing.
• In the working environment, short skirts are not allowed.
• Footwear should be a good and cleaned, approach your clothes, and most importantly, so that it does not bring you inconvenience. Even with 30 degrees of heat, never open the sock, you can only bargain the heel. And the heel of the present lady should have a perfect look.
• Do not wear unnecessary decorations.
• In clothes are unacceptable combination of more than three colors.

Someone has long said that friendship between a man and a woman does not happen. From this it follows a very simple conclusion: even if friendly relationships are supported between them, some kind of flirting is always present. It should not be afraid. It is only necessary to separate inexpensiveness and hints of simple communication, if it is not assumed that they will soon go to a qualitatively new round. Well, if you really want to go ...
At least the behavior of the girl should not cause irritation and be pleasant in any atmosphere.

Etiquette with a guy

Start, of course, it is necessary from the simplest. The girl should look good. It does not mean at all that it should be dear clothes, cosmetics, perfume. Everything can be very simple, but carefully selected and tastefully. Great importance It has well-groomed hands and legs, suitable hairstyle.
No less important is the same harmony to observe in behavior. Active gesticulation and facial expressions, loud voice and laughter causing rejection and will not help lead to the continuation of the meetings.

Modern liberty should not completely hide from the eyes (and other senses) men that the girl needs his care and care. For the demonstration of this, trivial techniques from the rules of etiquette prevailing for many centuries are perfect.

1. Approaching the chair near the table before dinner, you need to look at it. This is enough for a man to help sit down.
2. When overcoming any obstacle, a man can (and necessary) feed your hand, otherwise it may be ashamed to offer a hand first and will be in an ambiguous position (did not help).
3. If the girl accidentally witnessed the meeting of his companion with acquaintances, should not seek to take an active part in the conversation, a sufficient greeting and restrained attention.

Etiquette behavior with a guy

When communicating with a man, he should demonstrate his interest in it. The girl should not "To maintain a conversation" to speak without silent. There will be a more favorable impression about it if she, asking the leading questions, will give the opportunity to speak out to his interlocutor. It simplifies further communication and is good example In the etiquette of behavior with a young man.

• If the girl was invited to a restaurant and offered to choose a treat on their own taste, she should choose something from the average price range: the cheapest dish will demonstrate that it is shy, the most expensive is its tactlessness (suddenly her companion has a limited budget). It is not worth running every 15 minutes "pointing the nose" and chat on the phone.
• Drive in the car requires certain skills. If a girl with an unfamiliar man, you must wait when he opens the door in front of it (great, even if old friend Do not forget about it). So she is not mistaken with a place where she will go. Sitting into the car, you need to gently fall on the edge of the chair, and then move the legs inside. At the exit, it is also better at first, turning slightly to put your feet on the ground, and then get up.

What kind of girls' behavior like guys

Finally, how to behave with a guy who liked and like, with whom the girl is not averse to continue acquaintance?
First of all, the girl sets the distance. If she allows himself or a guy to break it, it means there was a sympathy. It is clearly demonstrated by random light touches ("talking" no one has canceled).

At an intuitive level, if a man sees how the girl is constantly touching his hair, wrists, he understands that he fell on the heart.

About such, seemingly capital truths, many forget, and then for a long time they are surprised that the man who really liked at the first meeting, and with whom the girl would not mind to meet a closer, suddenly disappeared. Do not push away with small carelessness from yourself who can be your only one and stick to etiquette not only for dating and rapprochement, but also in a tale life.

Content

In modern society, it is important to have good manners, be able to behave correctly in different life situations. Etiquette has many features and is complex science. The main subtlety is not clearly prescribed by the norms of behavior, it all depends on the circumstances, time and place. The rules of etiquette between a man and a girl will make communication more pleasant, and good manners will help to provide psychological influence on a partner.

What is the rules of etiquette

The concept happened OT. french word. "Etiquette", which means a combination of generally accepted rules of behavior, knowledge of the basics of politeness. There are several main types of etiquette:

• ability to submit yourself: formation of wardrobe, care for appearance, physical form, gestures, poses, posture;
• speech form: Ability to speak compliments, greetings, gratitude, speech manner;
• table etiquette: ability to eat food, knowledge of service standards, manners at the table;
• behavior in society: how to behave in the office, shop, at the exhibition, in the museum, restaurant, theater, court;
• business etiquette: Relationship with bosses, colleagues, business negotiations.

Good Tone Rules for Men

If the representative of the strong floor is the road reputation in society, it will always comply with moderation in clothing. Shorts and T-shirts are appropriate on a family dinner or during a country rest. For an informal setting, sports or classical clothing is suitable, and for business meetings requires a tie and jacket. As for the good manner, the man's educated man does not make it difficult to polite nodes in response to the greeting of even a unconscious man. How to communicate with a woman, bosses, relatives will be discussed below.

Modern etiquette for women

The first rule for a woman is tacty in any situations. Lessons of etiquette assume to behave respectfully with everyone, whether it is a neighbor, a business partner or an entrance cleaner. If a woman loves to joke, then it is necessary to clearly define, in what situation you can allow a joke, and who needs to be serious. It is necessary to observe the culture of communication with the opposite sex. With men strangers and familiar should not flirt, play and build eyes are a violation of etiquette. Politeness involves simple communication without intrigue, wovers and rumors.

Etiquette norms for children

The rules of behavior in society exist for children. From knowledge that the child will receive in childhood will depend on the successfulness, career, environment. The simplest techniques for mastering the rules of etiquette is reading fairy tales, watching cartoons, the use of board games on this topic, sutting the songs. The main rule of politeness for the child is respect for everyone without exception to adults, children, animals. From this already smoothly flow and all the others.

How to behave in society

The main arch of the rules of etiquette for men and women:

1. Do not come to visit no call. Only if you were visited without warning, you can afford to meet a person in homemade clothes.
2. Do not put a bag on a chair or knees. The volumetric backpack can be hanging on the back of the chair. Barstpet or a small handbag is put on the table, and if the man wears a portfolio, then it must be left on the floor.
3. If you meet your name first, if you have to communicate with a group of persons. To serve only the right hand.
4. In the car, the passenger needs to be sitting on the rear seat. The most prestigious is the place located for the driver.

In communicating with people

A typical day for a modern man includes many situations in which the culture of behavior and manner is checked: communication in stores, in public transport, acquaintance with colleagues, speech etiquette rules on official receptions and so on. As for the first meeting with a person, the impression is created on how much the interlocutor can see. In everyday etiquette, younger than the age or men are familiar with the first. To make a pleasant impression, you should always start communicating with a smile.

How a girl should behave with a guy

Modern etiquette for girls provides knowledge of elementary rules of behavior with the opposite sex. At the first meeting with a man, it's not worth it to rush on the neck, it will be appropriate to just stretch your hand. On a date you need to behave easily and easily, joke and smile, but not to be offended. It is impossible not to tell a man about their shortcomings or unsuccessful experiments of relations at the first meeting. About the merits, too, do not need to scream, you can specify about them, but casual.

Basics of etiquette

rules cultural behavior Simply: Culture of speech, which has a stylistic and grammatical orientation, well-groomed appearance, attentiveness towards the interlocutor, the ability to give the service to the needy, listen to the speaker. The dating rate and subsequent communication is conditional, therefore, it is the nature of an unwritten agreement on what is generally accepted and what is not. Each cultural person should know and follow the rules of etiquette, understanding their need for society.

Good manners

A pupil person is immediately isolated from the crowd. It is distinguished by knowledge of etiquette and a certain behavior manner: the intonation of the voice used in the speech of expression, gait, facial expressions, gesture. This is a restraint, modesty, the ability to control emotions, actions, words. To comply with the concept of a secular educated person, it is necessary to know and comply with certain rules that are considered mandatory in a decent society:

• healthy, the first woman feeds a man's hand;
• men welcome standing all without exception;
• when presenting a guest to other people (in meeting), they call his name, surname, patronymic (during business communication - profession);
• you do not bring a bad mood to visit, and if negative emotions are present, then the visit should be abandoned;
• it is impossible to allow children to intervene in the conversation of adults, interrupt the elders whispering in the ear;
• children's children in the presence of their parents are not doing comments;
• making gifts to people should be observed by tact, taking into account the floor, age, profession.

Ability to dress

The rules of etiquette oblige not only to know the correct manner of greetings of acquaintances and unfamiliar people, be able to maintain a secular conversation and stick to the decency in behavior, but also properly carry clothes appropriate. Nothing is striking like motley things. To the category of inappropriate things for a man of things include embroidered shirts, vulgar costumes, too bright ties. Businesswear should be moderate. In the morning it is allowed to wear a jacket, a surpetent or jacket pair. Color must match the season: in summer - light, winter - dark.

The ability to dress with taste is the first sign of the pupils of a woman. The etiquette encyclopedia contains a circle of rules related to clothing, which is distinguished by a real lady. Women's clothing must match the nature of the work. The image, allowed for the house of the models, will be unacceptable in the broker desk. Business lady for business lunch or conference will not work too short skirt or deeply decolted blouse. If the meeting is in a resort hotel or club, you need to take a few outfits that will be suitable for different situations.

How to file yourself

A few more generally accepted statutory standards:

• it is necessary to walk with a straight posture, taut belly and straightened shoulders;
• communication norms regarding greetings include polite words, but they are not always correct, for example, "Good afternoon" should not be to say a man with a frustrated person;
• even unfamiliar men should help the ladies enter the premises, holding the entrance door;
• the word "Please" should sound at any request;
• before you say goodbye to the interlocutor, you should first prepare for this: "Unfortunately, it's too late, and then say words of gratitude or compliment (if it is a woman).

Rules of etiquette when communicating

The rules of etiquette must be observed when communicating women and men. A male representative should follow the left of the companion and the first to enter the restaurant. If the lady welcomes familiar, the cavalier must also say hello to them, even if people are unfamiliar. Without approval of a woman, a man has no right to touch her. It is permitted only in moments of help (landing in a car, moving across the road). Smoking in the presence of another person, regardless of the floor, you can only with the resolution of the interlocutor.

There are certain rules for speech behavior. So, if you were insulted in the presence of other people, you should not succumb to provocations. Stand up and leave the scene. It is impossible to ask the interlocutor about his material well-being, love connections and other personal belongings. If you invite a business partner to meet, do not forget about punctuality. Special respect should be shown to people who have shown generosity or came to you to help in a difficult moment - they did not have to do this.

Spoken etiquette

The rules of courtesies exist at any conversation. Speech behavior is divided into writing and oral form, while the first has more stringent rules. Several types of conversations are distinguished: business, official, informal. Oral form has more simple rulesFor example, instead of a speech greeting you can do the nod of the head. The ability to conduct a polite speech is to speak to the interlocutor only those things that he himself would like to hear. Basic conversation principles - correctness, brevity, accuracy, relevance.

How to communicate with the interlocutor by phone

Compliance with the rules of the network etiquette must be and during communication by phone. In the process of the conversation, you must carefully follow the intonation, because the interlocutor does not see your face and may not misunderstand the meaning of the message. Do not force to wait for the caller, the maximum time to raise the tube reaches six beeps. It is not necessary to rush to the phone too - to answer better after the third beep. It is customary to call the interlocutor by name, if he is familiar. If not, it is advisable to be first.

Good manners and business etiquette

The main norms of behavior are rules for business communication. But not only the speech component is important when contacting partners, the body language also plays an important role. For example, talking, do not put the legs wide, keep your hands in your pockets or hungry. Excessive gesticulation is not welcome - so as not to embarrass the interlocutor gestures must be restrained. Pay attention to the personnel of a person - the distance should be at least the size of the elongated hand.

Rules of home etiquette

Family members should especially be polite with each other. To preserve warm relationships, it is necessary to constantly monitor the psychological climate, sincerely rejoice in the success of loved ones, do not move to insults during the quarrel, use to communicate the words "Sorry", "Thank you", "good morning" and others. It is necessary to respect the older generation and not to read the personal records of their children without permission.

How to behave at the table

The main rule of behavior at the table is impossible to chew with a sprinkled mouth. It is also undesirable to talk, especially when food is chewed. Before putting a part of a common dish to your plate, you must first offer it to the other present. It is not necessary to serve your own plate first, but to give the opportunity to do this to guests or senior family members. When serving a table, a common cutlery is placed near each dish. The soup must be served in special plates from the seated man on the right.

Etiquette in a guest

Take friends and go to them guests - a good launch form of dating. For reception is considered to be the best time - dinner, but you need to invite people in advance so that they can adjust their plans. The form of clothing can be informal. According to etiquette, an unfamiliar guest is called all those present by name only after its own presentation. In a friendly company, you can skip the supply of the main dish, but in business dinner it is unacceptable. It is important to be able to use cutlery of different typesEven if the owners of other national traditions.

Each girl is important to know how to behave properly in various situations and do not lose their own dignity. Modern etiquette for girls is filled various rules. We will try to highlight the main 15 standards of behavior for each of you.

Behavior in a guest.

1. When or reject the invitation should be in advance. So the rules of etiquette for girls and guys.

2. To come together with someone you can only find it with the hostess.

3. Also, the etiquette of a modern girl reports that coming to visit in advance indecently. The norm is late for a few minutes.

4. Do not drink alcohol over measure. It is ugly for both the girl and the guy.

5. Also, the basic rules of etiquette for girls suggest the call of gratitude to the hostess the next day after reception.

Behavior in a restaurant and cafe

1. If you visit the restaurant together, the guy takes the menu first, after he transfers his girl. The order reports the guy for two. Such is a latent girl with a guy in such facilities.

2. Also, the etiquette for girls at the table prohibits negotiations on the mobile phone in the presence of the rest of the guests.

3. Screams, cough and other signs are unacceptable to attract the attention of the waiter.

4. Talk loudly and laugh is also unacceptable.

5. Regarding the instruments of the etiquette rules for girls at the table are as follows: At the end of the meal, the knife with a fork is put in parallel to each other, in the break - cross-cross.

1. Required wardrobe Etiquette clothes for girls says that it is important for the outfit, first of all its relevance, and then convenience and beauty.

2. Never read someone else's correspondence and personal records.

3. Do not discuss your sex life for strangers.

4. Turn off mobile phone in public places.

5. It is important that your hairstyle, manicure and shoes have always been in perfect condition.

Now each of us is extremely important to know how the girl should behave, etiquette and its rules. It follows in all situations to behave adequately and wellness. Having good manners are far from luxury, but the need for each lady.