Before fortune telling for your betrothed, it is important to get in a serious mood. If you take the process lightly, the result will be distorted. The fortuneteller lets down her hair, removes her belts, any jewelry (bracelets, earrings), and her pectoral cross. The room should be quiet and dark. When telling fortunes about your betrothed, it is not recommended to cross your arms or legs. Following the rules will allow you to get the most reliable result. For a prediction to come true, you cannot tell anyone about it.
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- Regular black - at work.
- Green - at the market or in a store.
- Brown - among friends.
- White - in distant lands.
- Yellow - on the road.
- Metal - the spouse will be a military man.
- With rhinestones or shiny - in the cinema, club, disco.
- Blue - indicates a chance meeting on the street.
- A piece of sugar - the coming year will be happy, financially secure;
- Ring – wedding;
- Shawl - a handsome guy;
- Rag - poor husband;
- Coin – rich husband;
- Onion - grief and tears.
- The King of Spades is an old man, a jealous owner.
- Chervonny is a young and wealthy man.
- Krestovy – military man or entrepreneur.
- Bubnovy is the man of dreams.
- 1. The first card personifies the sorceress, her condition and mood to find a husband and find family happiness.
- 2. The second card will tell you when the girl will meet her husband. It indicates precisely the time, perhaps the period of life.
- 3. The third talks about the circumstances under which the meeting will take place.
- 4. The fourth will describe the personality and sometimes appearance of the future husband.
- 5. The fifth card indicates whether this person is destined.
- 6. Sixth - how life will develop after the wedding.
- 7. The seventh card will give advice on marriage and relationships with your future spouse.
- 1. Remove icons from the room.
- 2. Be alone in the bedroom.
- 3. Remove the belt, jewelry, and unbraid your hair.
- 4. After pronouncing the words, do not talk to anyone (otherwise the betrothed will not appear).
- 5. Keep the fact of fortune telling secret.
- 6. Sleep the other way around - lie with your head where your feet are.
- 7. Turn the pillow over too.
- Instead of twigs, three bay leaves are placed. With the words “My betrothed, disguised, appear to me in a dream! "The fortune teller goes to bed.
- A jar of jam is placed at the head of the bed. In this case, the girl will see in a dream a young man who is already in love with her.
- A well of matches is made at the head of the bed before going to bed. They say the words: “Betrothed-mummer, come and drink some water.”
- A girl sleeping in a new place says before going to bed: “The bridegroom will dream about the bride in a new place.”
- 1. Mirrors are placed on the table opposite each other.
- 2. Candles are placed and lit at the same distance from them.
- 3. The girl asks her betrothed to come to her.
- 4. Next, you should look at the reflection in the mirrors. At first the image will be blurry, but then it will become clearer.
- 5. When the image becomes noticeable, the words are pronounced: “Keep me out, mind me! "
- Spoons (the number depends on the number of fortune telling participants).
- An appropriate number of strips of white paper up to 2 cm wide and up to 30 cm long.
- Wax candles.
- Large flat plate or tray.
- New towel.
- 1. Each of the fortune telling participants sits in a circle and lights a candle in front of them.
- 2. The presenter places a plate with spoons and paper in the center.
- 3. Those present join hands and say the words of the spell three times: “Brownie, brownie, if you are here, answer on the spoon, if not, don’t open one.”
- 4. Each participant should take one piece of paper and ask questions that require a “yes” or “no” answer (for example, “Will I get married this year?”, “Will my future spouse be rich”?).
- 5. The cutlery handle is placed in paper folded in half. Both ends are then wrapped around the spoon.
- 6. The device is scrolled until the paper strip completely encircles the handle. The spoon is then placed on the tray.
- 7. The presenter covers the cutlery with a cloth and quickly spins the plate in a clockwise direction. After making a few turns, she throws back the towel so that each of those present takes the spoon whose handle is pointed at her.
- 8. If a strip of paper releases the cutlery freely, the answer to the question is yes. If the spoon remains inside the paper, the brownie answers “no”, the questioner’s wish will not come true.
- Small sheets of paper.
- Container with water.
- A piece of candle.
- Half of a walnut shell.
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Fortune telling on an ordinary day
You don’t have to wait until Christmas time or other holidays to cast a spell on your betrothed. On these days, fortune telling is the most truthful, but you can resort to the sacraments on an ordinary day. The optimal time for fortune telling is the full moon. Days that are traditionally considered women's are well suited - Wednesday, Friday and Saturday.
According to papers
Suitable for those girls who would like to know the name of their future husband. Various men's names are written on several small pieces of paper. Notes are placed in a hat or container. The pieces of paper are thoroughly mixed, and one is taken out at random. The name written on it indicates the future husband.
On rice grains
Rice is poured into a glass glass. The left hand is held above the container, palm down. Then the fortuneteller says the question that interests her and takes a small handful of rice from the glass. The grains are poured onto a napkin or paper. If their number is even, the answer is “yes”. If it’s odd, “no.”
On the bulbs
Take several bulbs. The names of the gentlemen are written on them. The bulbs are placed in water. The one that takes root faster than others indicates the future spouse.
Button up
Several buttons of different colors are placed in an opaque bag. It is recommended to take buttons of the same diameter, similar to each other to the touch.
Then you need to mentally tune in to fortune telling, ask the question: “My dear, where to look for you? ", and take out one button. Its color will indicate the place of meeting with your future spouse:
Fortune telling on things
Several things are placed in a felt boot or bag, symbolizing different aspects of life:
Shake the bag and immediately, without looking, take out the first object that comes across.
Find out the name of your betrothed by cards
The classic deck is shuffled and then cards are drawn one at a time. Each of them is called any male name. When the king of hearts appears from the deck, the divination ends. The name said by the fortuneteller belongs to the future husband.
The girl puts kings from a regular deck of cards of four suits under her pillow. Before going to bed, the words are said: “Betrothed-mummer, appear to me in a dream.” Depending on who dreams, the future husband is judged:
Tarot
You can tell fortunes about your betrothed using a Tarot card layout. You need to shuffle the deck and pull out 7 cards, each of which will tell you about the future:
By hand
For this fortune telling you will need the help of a friend. Fortune telling is similar to the children's game "nettle". The friend takes the fortuneteller by the wrist of her left hand and gently twists it in opposite directions. At this time, you need to take a closer look at the folds of the skin. You can see the outline of the letter in them. It will be capitalized in the name of the future husband.
Fortune telling at night
In the evening and at night, even at ordinary times, the divination will be true. After all, in the dark, mysterious forces that hide in the light of day are released. The connection with the other world is strengthened, which allows you to get a more reliable result. The most accurate fortune telling is carried out from midnight to three o'clock in the morning.
At the church
Fortune telling is performed only by girls. On a clear moonlit night they go to a church or chapel that is locked at night. According to popular belief, you can hear either wedding singing or the sounds of a funeral service. What you hear shows how the ceremony will be next year: wedding or funeral.
Near the window
Sitting in their room, they listen to sounds from the street. When all the household members go to bed, turn off the lights and go to the window, saying the words: “My betrothed, mummer, drive past my house.” After some time, passersby will pass by or vehicles will pass by. If they shout, whistle or laugh, this is a good sign. The husband will be decent and kind. If they pass quietly, it promises a poor man.
On a candle
You will need several candles. One symbolizes the fortune teller, the rest symbolize candidates for the hand and heart. The candles are lit and yours is placed in the center. The one towards which the wax flows from its own and points to the betrothed. If the fortuneteller’s lamp burns evenly, the fortuneteller should not make a hasty choice. He will be unreasonable.
With ring and thread
The question of marriage comes up. An engagement ring is taken from a mother, sister or friend. A black thread is threaded through it, and the decoration is lowered into the glass. If the ring begins to touch the edges of the glass to the right of the fortuneteller, there will be a wedding. If it’s on the left, you’ll have to sit in the girls for now.
Having taken out the ring, it is put on any finger for the whole night. Any dream will be prophetic.
By patches
You will need multi-colored scraps of fabric. They all fit into a box or bag. Then, without looking, any piece of fabric is taken out. At the same time they ask: “What color is my fiancé’s hair? “Similarly, you can find out other information - for example, the color of your eyes or even your car.
Fortune telling in a dream
Before divination, it is useful to place a pen and notepad at the head of the bed. To prevent a prophetic dream about love from being forgotten, you should write down its details immediately after waking up.
For the dream to be true, you need to properly prepare:
With a frying pan
The girl puts a frying pan under her mother's bed, but does not inform her parent about this. Before going to bed, the fortuneteller utters the words: “My betrothed, mummer, come to your mother-in-law to eat pancakes.” If a mother sees in a dream how she feeds some guy pancakes, he will be considered the daughter’s future husband.
To the bridge
Several twigs are taken from a household broom, from which a small bridge is constructed. The product is placed under the pillow. Before going to bed, the girl makes a wish: “Betrothed, come to me, take me across the bridge.” In a dream she will see her future life partner.
On a horseshoe
This fortune telling uses a horseshoe and a twig from a new broom. Attributes are placed under the pillow. The betrothed appears in a dream in the form of a horseman. If there is no real horseshoe, you can replace it with a symbolic one - for example, by making one out of cardboard.
On the branches
Twigs are taken from three trees - birch, willow and apple tree. It is advisable to pick them up from the ground. If there are no dry branches, you should break them off the tree carefully, asking the tree for forgiveness. At home, three branches are tied with thread taken from one’s clothes. Before going to bed, they need to be placed under the pillow, and then the fortuneteller will see her betrothed.
Advice! If branches had to be broken off, you can hang a satin ribbon on the branch as a sign of gratitude and apology to the tree. Or place a bun at its roots.
Other options
There are alternative options for fortune telling, in which special attributes are placed under the pillow (their action is similar to those described):
Sleep from Tuesday to Wednesday
The fortuneteller buys a new castle. From Tuesday to Wednesday, a ritual is carried out: a lock is held and closed over a container filled with spring water. At the same time the words are pronounced:
“Betrothed-mummer, appear and ask me for a drink.”
In a dream, her future husband will come to her.
Saturday fortune telling
On a piece of black fabric, circles are drawn on both sides with a wax candle. Their diameter should be approximately equal to the bottom of the glass. On one side the name “Raphael” is written in a circle, on the other - your name. Four crosses are drawn around the circles in the same places: top, bottom, right and left.
Before going to bed, the cloth is placed under the pillow. The spell is pronounced:
“Great Lord, from everlasting to everlasting glory be to You in the highest. I come running to You, Father, Your servant (name). Send down to me Your Angel, whose name is inscribed in the circle of pentacles. Let him show me my betrothed. Glory to You, Lord. Amen, amen, amen."
Before performing this fortune telling, you must fast for three days.
On Tuesday night
Take three bay leaves. The names of the angels are written on them - Ananias, Azarias and Misail. The leaves are placed on the windowsill in the bedroom. Before going to bed, the words are said: “From Monday to Tuesday I look at the windowsill. Whoever dreams of me, let him appear in my dreams.”
Christmas and Yuletide fortune-telling
January 6 is a special day, Christmas Eve. On the night of Christmas, as well as on Christmastide (from January 8 to 18), you can find out your fate. It was believed that at this time mysterious forces rush into the human world. During the period from Christmas to Epiphany, unclean spirits lose their power, and fortune telling turns from a sin into simple fun.
The most accurate days for divination are Christmas Eve, Old New Year (January 13), as well as Epiphany Eve, celebrated on January 18.
On a towel
On the night before Christmas, they hang a white towel on the street, saying the words: “My betrothed, mummer, come wipe yourself.” If a fortuneteller picks up a completely dry towel from outside the window in the morning, then no wedding is planned this year. If it is wet, it predicts a quick marriage.
In the old New Year, an armful of firewood
On New Year's Eve, girls and boys take an armful of firewood at random and take it indoors. The quantity is counted there. If there is an even number of firewood, the one who brought the armful will get married. If it’s odd, he’ll remain single for now.
With sock
The girl puts on a sock or stocking on one leg. The second one is placed under the pillow. Before going to bed, the words are said: “My betrothed, the mummer, come to me, come take off my shoes.” Well done, who is dreaming is the future husband.
With a comb
Without combing her hair, the girl puts a comb or comb under the pillow. The words are spoken: “My betrothed, the mummer, come and comb me.” In a dream, the fortuneteller will see her future spouse.
With salt
This method can cause intestinal disorders. But some fortune tellers still use it. The divination consists of eating a thimble of salt before going to bed and washing it down with a thimble of water, while saying the words: “My betrothed, the mummer, come give me something to drink.”
Find out your betrothed's name from passers-by
On the night before Christmas or on the old New Year, you need to go outside and go to the nearest pedestrian intersection. Now you should wait for late passers-by. When the first man appears, they will find out his name under any pretext. This is what the future spouse will be called. Guys can perform a similar ritual on female passersby.
Traditional fortune telling with a mirror
Refers to forbidden, terrible fortune telling. Unlike other methods, it is carried out exclusively on Christmastide. For divination you will need two mirrors and two church candles. This is done as follows:
If the sorceress decides to interrupt the ceremony, both mirrors are quickly placed on the table with the reflective surface down. The light in the room turns on.
On spoons
Fortune telling is carried out at home by several girls. To perform the ritual you will need:
The ritual is carried out like this:
In the snow
They take the water out and pour it under the nearest pole. At the same time, the words are pronounced: “I’ll pour the snow, I’ll wash myself with white.” Show me what my betrothed is like.” Having said the spell, they take a handful of snow and rub it on their cheeks. Then the snow is carried home. If a handful is loose and melts in a matter of seconds, the future spouse will be calm and flexible. If the snowflakes sparkle and sparkle, the fortuneteller will have a marriage full of love and happiness. If the snow turns into a lump, the husband will be strict and intractable.
On pieces of paper
For the ceremony you will need:
The names of the gentlemen are written on pieces of paper. The notes are glued to the inside of the bowl, but so that they are not wetted with water. To do this, the container is filled halfway with liquid.
A candle is attached to the shell and lit. The resulting structure is carefully lowered onto the water. Then they observe: to which name the “ship” floats, that will be the name of the betrothed. If the shell does not come close to any note, there will be no wedding this year.
Fortune telling on St. Andrew's Day
On the day of St. Andrew the First-Called (December 13), divination is particularly accurate. At this time, the girls observe fasting and ask the Apostle Andrew for the gift of a good spouse.
On the fence
It takes place after sunset. The fortune teller walks along the fence and counts the stakes. The words are spoken: “Rich, poor, widower, single.” Whichever word the fence ends on will be its narrowed word.
If you dreamed about your ex-husband and behaved kindly, this indicates that spiritually the relationship with him is complete. Soon the lady will fall in love with another man. You can find out about this by telling fortunes again, but not earlier than in a month.
Sometimes the fortuneteller sees the future spouse and can discern in detail the details of his appearance. But in a dream you cannot see your face. Experienced fortune tellers emphasize: this also indicates the remoteness of the meeting with the betrothed in time. A meeting with a man will not happen earlier than in a few years. In this case, it is recommended to repeat fortune telling in a year, on Christmastide or at another time suitable for fortune telling. A girl can remember other details of what appeared to her in a dream - clothes, manners, voice.
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The holiday is celebrated annually on the night of July 6-7. Kupala night is considered the most magical night of the year. Fortune telling is most reliable at this time.
Since any divination takes away the spiritual strength of the fortuneteller, after the ritual it is useful to wash with holy water and go to the temple. This will cleanse and restore energy.
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Surprisingly, even today, when every girl is the master of her own destiny, most are still interested in finding out when and who they will marry. An ancient fortune-telling for your betrothed will help you lift the veil over the future. In this article we have made for you a selection of the most interesting rituals for your future husband, you will definitely find the one that suits you!
The old rituals remained almost unchanged, passing from mother to daughter, from grandmother to granddaughter.
When you decide to do fortune telling, take it seriously. Don't start if you're skeptical - you'll just be wasting your time. And of course, do not doubt your abilities; self-confidence will help you get a true result. First, understand for yourself what you can and cannot do if you are guessing about your future betrothed:
- You can conduct fortune telling for the groom all year round, choosing a time that is convenient for you. You don't have to wait until Christmas or the next holiday week. However, if you decide to guess on these days, the prediction will be more accurate.
- True predictions about a future marriage can be obtained at midnight, on a full moon, or in the evening of one of the “women's days” - Wednesday, Saturday, Friday.
Questions from visitors and answers from experts:
- Before you start, take all the icons out of the room and remove the cross from yourself. This religion does not approve of any fortune-telling, even those that are traditionally carried out during the holiday week. And nothing should interfere with the ritual.
- Complete all your evening activities before guessing. At the end, you will no longer be able to do anything or talk to anyone. If you break this rule, you will have to repeat it another day, otherwise what you saw in your dream will not come true.
- Start fortune telling for your betrothed before bed only when you are convinced that everyone in the household has already gone to bed. You should not be distracted by children, animals, or noise behind the wall. You must perform the ceremony alone.
Fortune telling for your betrothed in a dream
A successful fortune-telling of your betrothed before bed will help you see his face in night visions. There are many ways to call the groom into your dream, in this section we will talk about them.
On salt water
Mix two teaspoons of salt in a glass of water and drink it before bed. You can no longer drink until the morning, even if you are thirsty. And then you will dream of a man who will offer you a drink of water. Remember his face, this is your future groom!
On the comb
Buy a new wooden comb and place it under your pillow as you prepare to go to bed on Thursday night. Invite your groom to come into your dream and help you comb your hair. Be careful, you cannot use the comb until you have a dream. You can read more about it in this article.
On water and twig
Pour water into a deep bowl and place a thin twig on top of it. Put the bowl under the bed, without removing the twig, and go to bed. And at night in a dream, call your groom to help you cross the shaky bridge to the other side, if he helps, you will have a friendly and strong family!
On the branches
Take three branches from a birch, willow and apple tree. Break them off carefully, asking the tree for forgiveness. You can tie a bright ribbon to the place of the log house as a sign of apology. After bringing the twigs home, pull a thread from clothes that you often wear and tie them together. When preparing for bed, place three tied branches under your pillow, and then you will dream of the groom.
On flowers
Collect a bouquet of 13 meadow herbs and flowers. Make a guess for yourself what each of the plants will mean in your fortune telling. Write down the interpretations so you don't forget them in the morning. Place a bouquet under your pillow before going to bed to see your groom at night. And when you wake up, the first thing you do is select one of the stems by touch. The event it denotes will happen to you during the lunar month. There are a few more that may interest you.
With a letter
Write a romantic letter addressed to your future husband, in which you invite him into your dream. Instead of a signature, put a scarlet lip print at the bottom of the letter. Put the letter under your pillow and put a new mirror there. This method is good because you can “send” a letter in this way for several nights in a row, until you really see your betrothed.
With socks
Go to bed wearing one sock and place the other one under your pillow. They say that if you have a caring groom, he will definitely come at night to help you remove the remaining sock. If you find your sock removed in the morning... well, that's the way it is!
Locked
Lock the new lock by holding it over a glass of water, and then put it under your pillow. In a dream, your betrothed will come to you asking for the key.
On the map
They say that in order to dream about your betrothed at night, you need to put a king of diamonds or a king of hearts under your pillow.
On a horseshoe
It is believed that if you put a twig from a new broom and a horseshoe under your pillow, your future husband will dream of you as a rider on a horse. You can make a horseshoe yourself, for example, cut it out of cardboard.
On the laurel
Three bay leaves under the pillow also help to see your future spouse in a dream.
For jam
If you put a bowl of jam under your bed at night, you will dream of a young man who is in love with you.
In a new place
There is an old saying: “In a new place, the bride dreams of the groom.” If you fall asleep in a new bed for the first time, even without any rituals you can meet your future husband in your dream.
On the forks
A glass with two forks placed near the bed will also invite the groom to your dream.
Interpretation of sleep
If you saw your betrothed in a dream, then this is a very good sign, but what to do if you dreamed of other images:
- If you see several men in a dream, it means that you are destined to get married more than once.
- If you fulfilled all the conditions for fortune telling, but no one came to you at night, remember what you saw in your dream instead of a man. Interpret these images according to the dream book.
- Other images usually indicate what is preventing you from finding family happiness and meeting your chosen one.
Christmas fortune telling on the mirror
According to legend, your betrothed can be seen in the mirror at Christmas
This is a traditional Christmas fortune telling for your betrothed on a mirror. Unlike other methods, it can only be carried out during Christmas week, preferably on Christmas night. For this fortune telling you will need two mirrors, two wax candles and time to prepare the festive table.
To successfully carry out fortune-telling in the mirror for your betrothed, you need to have time to serve a romantic dinner for two before midnight, and then change into beautiful clothes, as if you were actually going on a date. But remember that when fortune telling there should be no metal objects, so do not place cutlery on the table. It is better to choose a suitable outfit for yourself in advance.
- Place two mirrors on the table so that they reflect each other.
- Place two candles in the center of the table, at an equal distance from both mirrors. When midnight comes, you can start fortune telling.
- Light the candles, turn off the lights in the room and sit behind one of the mirrors.
- Ask the groom to hear your call and come and enjoy the dinner you have prepared for him.
- Peer into the surface of the mirror that stands opposite you.
- Wait until the reflection in it begins to distort. If you don't get scared and continue to watch, you will see a man's face. At first the image will be blurry, and then it will become clearer.
If you decide to interrupt the ceremony, place both mirrors on the table glass side down and turn on the light in the room.
Card fortune telling for your betrothed
In this section, we will look at two simple card fortune telling using ordinary 36 playing cards, which will not be difficult for any girl to lay out and interpret.
The first layout is “King and Queen”
You will need a regular deck that has never been played on. Find the queen and king of hearts in it, place them face down on the table.
Shuffle the rest of the deck and remove it with your left hand. Fortune telling on cards for your betrothed begins:
Removing cards from the top of the deck, place them face down on the king and queen in turn. You will end up with two stacks. Set aside cards whose numbers match (for example, both piles have sixes on top).
Shuffle the deck and repeat the stacking two more times. Then look at what card values were put aside:
- 6 - separation awaits you;
- 7 - a passionate date is ahead;
- 8 - you will remain friends;
- 9 - your love will be tested;
- 10 - your union will be long;
- Jacks - a joint trip is ahead;
- Ladies - he will cheat on you;
- Kings - you will meet another;
- Aces - there is a more suitable person next to you.
If there are cards of several denominations in the set aside, all the specified events will happen to the pair.
Second layout “Four Jacks”
To conduct another fortune-telling for your betrothed on cards, remove all four jacks from the deck, and then do this:
- On three of them, guess the names of guys you know, and the fourth is someone you haven’t met yet.
- Place the jacks face down on the table to form the basis for the stacks.
- Shuffle the rest of the deck, remove the cards with your left hand and arrange them into four piles of jacks.
- Turn over all the cards and find which jack got the Ace of Hearts in the pile. He points to the most suitable partner for you.
Fortune telling on the betrothed on paper
These two fortune tellings can be done without any preparation; you just need a piece of paper and a pen.
Option one: “Answer the question”
Formulate your question so that it can only be answered yes or no, for example: “Will I marry Ivan Ivan this year?” Write down the resulting phrase on a piece of paper and write the number of letters in it under each word.
Add pairs of adjacent numbers, narrowing the triangle down. If at any stage you get a number greater than 10, add its numbers together and continue further. As a result, you will get one number, which will become the bottom vertex of the triangle. To interpret fortune telling on paper, find the value of the last number:
- - Depends on your efforts;
- - No;
- - Yes;
- - No;
- - Probably not;
- - Most likely yes;
- - Yes;
- - Yes, but you will have to wait;
- - No never.
Option two “Heart”
To conduct another fortune-telling for your betrothed on paper, you will need a piece of paper in a box. Close your eyes and imagine in detail the person whose attitude you want to tell fortunes about. Draw a heart using a different hand than you usually write with. Open your eyes and count the number of whole cells trapped inside the contour. If you divide this number by 6, what is the remainder?
- 0 - He is indifferent to you.
- 1 - You are just a friend to him.
- 2 - He likes you.
- 3 - He likes someone else.
- 4 - He sees you in his dreams.
- 5 - He is in love with you.
Fortune telling for the betrothed
To the first person you meet
There is one very simple fortune telling for the betrothed, best done at Christmas or Old New Year. On a holiday night, you simply leave your house at midnight and go to the nearest pedestrian intersection. Stand in the center of the road intersection and wait for late passersby.
You need to ask the name of the first man passing by, and you need to find out him no matter what it takes, catch up with him, ask him under any pretext! This is what your future husband will be called.
Advice! The kindest and smartest brides take a pie or pancakes with them to fortune telling to treat the man who gave the answer!
By phone number
Some girls tell fortunes in a more modern way - they call invented numbers until a man picks up the phone, from whom you need to ask the name. At the same time, you can talk longer - what if he is your future husband!
Using cards
You can find out the groom's name using a deck of cards. Shuffle the deck, remove with your left hand and open the cards one at a time, calling a man's name for each. The fortune telling will end when you reveal the King of Hearts. The name you say at the same time belongs to your future husband.
Fortune telling "When will I get married"
Fortune telling for a betrothed can be found in any culture of our world. And this is not surprising, because girls always wanted to know what fate awaits them, what kind of family life they will have, and most importantly: when will it come? These rituals will help you answer the questions that torment you.
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Fortune telling before going to bed for your betrothed
Many fortune telling for the betrothed is carried out before bedtime. This is done because it is quite difficult for an ignorant person who has not previously encountered witchcraft to accept and see the signs of fate. But sleep is a completely different matter. When we sleep, we are open to the world and perceive its cues. At least once, each of us has had a prophetic dream. And if you know exactly what kind of clues you want to know and carried out the ritual correctly, that is, made a kind of “request,” then you will undoubtedly find out the answer.
Fortune telling for a betrothed by salt
For this ritual you should take ordinary salt. It is often used in other rituals, for example, in the evening, when you prepare dinner, deliberately over-salt it. Thus, when you go to bed, you will feel thirsty. Before you fall asleep, say this spell:
Who is my betrothed, who is my mummer, will give me a drink
The one who comes into your dreams is your chosen one. Don’t forget to write down what you dreamed as soon as you wake up from sleep, as it can quickly disappear from your memory.
Fortune telling for the betrothed with twigs
This fortune telling should mainly be done in the spring, since the branches for the ritual will need to be fresh and full of strength, with young buds. Weave them into a symbolic bridge. It is not at all necessary to make a miniature copy of the bridge, just so that it is similar and you know what it is and what it is needed for. Then, when you go to bed, place it near your head and say:
Who is my betrothed, who is my mummer, will take me across the bridge.
Your chosen one should come to you in a dream this night.
Fortune telling about your future husband on the water
For this ritual you only need a bowl of clean water and an ordinary lock. It is desirable that there is a full moon and its light falls on the vessel. Late in the evening, before going to bed, click the lock over the bowl and whisper:
Come, my betrothed, ask for a drink.
Whoever you meet this night will become your husband.
Fortune telling for the groom
Native girls can also guess about their beloved. But for this it is necessary that the one being told fortunes move to sleep in a new place. In addition, she should not take part in the ritual. Following this, any thing that is used to tell fortunes is taken and “locked”, that is, the fortune teller takes a lock, hangs it on this item and locks it with a key. The one performing the ritual must place the same key near her head and say:
Betrothed-mummer, come to unlock your daughter-in-law and rescue her from captivity.
Accordingly, the future groom will be seen this night.
Fortune telling about your future husband using cards
Now you must choose 4 kings from the ordinary one. It’s better to take a new, unplayed deck. When going to bed, hide the cards near your pillow and say:
Who is my betrothed, who is my mummer, appear in my dreams.
Your betrothed will come in a dream in the form of one of the kings. The suit will tell you about the financial condition and character of the groom.
- So, the king of spades symbolizes a man older than you, wealthy, but stingy. Besides everything, he is jealous and distrustful.
- The cross king denotes a man of action. That is, he is an active, brave and determined person. Could be a military man or a firefighter, or just play sports and have extreme hobbies.
- The King of Diamonds speaks of a sweet and slightly clumsy young man. He has a kind heart and loves animals. With a high degree of probability, the fortuneteller is already familiar with him.
- The King of Hearts symbolizes a man in his prime, rich and full of energy. But he already has a lady of his heart, although not for long.
Fortune telling for the groom with a frying pan
First, find a suitable frying pan. You can use any household frying pan, especially if you use it often. Now you should quietly place it under your mother’s bed at night. It is very important that your mother does not notice this. When you go to bed, say:
Betrothed, come and visit your mother-in-law for pancakes.
The one who appears in a dream this night before your mother will be your chosen one.
Fortune telling on the groom on a towel
If you want to know whether you will get married this year, then use this ritual to find out the exact answer. In the evening you need to hang a piece of white clean fabric outside the window and say:
Betrothed, come to me and dry yourself with this towel
If in the morning it is still dry and clean, don’t expect to get married this year; if it becomes wet and dirty, then you will get married, but your family life will not be particularly happy. If the towel falls, expect trouble.
Fortune telling for the betrothed with jam
This funny ritual will surely appeal to those with a sweet tooth. It not only helps to see the future betrothed, it also helps to attract suitors. To do this, you just need to take a saucer or bowl with your favorite jam. At night, before you go to bed, place the bowl near the head of the bed and say the following:
I have all the sweets
This night you will definitely dream about your future lover.
Yuletide fortune telling
Christmas time (January 7 - 19) is a favorite time for fortune telling for our ancestors. All the unmarried girls gathered together and wondered about their future marriage, the birth of children, their husband’s wealth, etc. Married women also gathered, but separately, and the topic of fortune telling was somewhat different. Why was this particular time considered the most appropriate? They say that it is on these days that the veil between this world and that one opens, and all magical actions, and especially fortune-telling, acquire special power. Our website has an excellent article on, below are some Christmas rituals of divination.
Fortune telling for the betrothed with a mirror
This ritual was considered the most dangerous, and only the bravest girls dared to do it. After all, besides the lover’s face, a completely different face could look out of the mirror. So, the ritual itself begins at midnight. The fortuneteller needs to be alone. You will need a candle and a mirror. Your hair should not be pinned up; if you are wearing a belt, take it off.
After this, turn off all the lights except the candle flame. Let the mirror stand opposite you. Take a close look at it and call, mentally or out loud, your betrothed. Without taking your eyes off or blinking, look behind your left shoulder. Gradually, the silhouette of a man will take shape there. Having examined his face, say: “Out of this place!” After this, the ritual will be considered over. Blow out the candle and turn on the light. It is advisable to hide the mirror away.
Fortune telling by patches
To carry out this fortune telling, you need to take pieces of fabric of different colors. You need to put them in one box. Next, ask the question out loud: “What color is my lover’s hair?” Following this, you should pull out a piece of fabric without looking into the chest. Accordingly, what color the fabric is, your betrothed’s hair will be the same. This way you can find out other external signs of your future lover, for example, eye color.
Fortune telling about your future husband
This ritual helped young girls find out who their husband would be in the current year, and if so. The meaning of fortune telling was that various objects were previously placed on the table: coal, ring, wheat, book, glass, coin, etc. The girl with her eyes closed entered the room and grabbed one of the things by touch. Each item symbolized something of its own, a special meaning.
Thus, a spike of wheat was a sign that the future chosen one would be a grain grower, a coin announced the husband’s wealth, a book symbolized the groom’s learning, and a glass predicted a drunkard husband. Now this fortune telling has changed somewhat, as a large number of new professions have appeared. So in the modern version, you can add such items as: a flash drive, as a sign of a programmer’s husband, a knife denotes a military man, a cereal - a business man, and a mirror - a playmaker. If a girl comes across a piece of coal, then she will not have a wedding this year.
Fortune telling for your betrothed in the snow
Not all fortune telling took place in a room, behind closed doors. Some of them required getting outside. These rituals are one of them.
First you need to go outside. It is important that there is no heavy snow this evening. Find a place where the snow is untouched. Walk along it, leaving clear footprints. After this you can return to the house. In the morning, go and see if anyone has crossed your tracks. If they are intact and untouched, it means that your husband will be kind and affectionate, and your home life will be quiet and happy. If they are trampled, alas, your marriage will not work out, you will be haunted by failures and poverty.
You can also go outside exactly in the middle of the night and pick up a handful of snow. Next, throw it against the wind. If the snowflakes fall directly on you, the betrothed will be young and handsome, and if the wind blows them in the other direction, then the betrothed will be an elderly and wealthy man.
Fortune telling for husband's name on paper
If you are interested in the name of the future groom, then this fortune telling is perfect for you. By the way, you can spend it together with your girlfriends. First you need to cut them into not very thin ones and write men’s names on them. Some of them should be left blank. Next, lower them to the bottom of a deep bowl and fill with water. The resulting whirlpool will bring notes to the surface, and the one who manages to grab one of them will learn the name of her future husband. If you caught an empty note, it means that the groom will not appear soon.
Every girl dreams of meeting her true betrothed in life. But how can you recognize him and determine the time when you should expect such a person to appear in your life? Such questions can be answered by performing fortune telling on your betrothed.
It is believed that the most reliable is Christmas fortune-telling for the betrothed. It must be carried out on the night of January 6-7. But most professional magicians claim that the entire Christmas period, which lasts until Epiphany, which falls on January 19, is suitable for this type of fortune telling. According to experts in the field of esotericism, at this time the world of spirits comes into contact with the world of existing reality. This allows you to look into the future and get answers to your questions. Fortune telling rituals must be performed at night.
Also traditionally, fortune telling for the betrothed was carried out on the summer holiday of Ivan Kupala, which is celebrated on July 6-7. Such rituals should be carried out at night, from midnight until the first rooster crow, that is, until 4 o’clock in the morning.
If there is an urgent need to tell fortunes at any other time, then you can do it from Thursday to Friday. But it should be understood that the reliability of the information received may be lower. This is due to the fact that weekdays filled with everyday activities significantly reduce a person’s sensitivity to signs received from the world of magic. On such days, the probability that the prediction will not come true is very high. Therefore, you can carry out fortune telling only if you are sure that you have enough strength to completely disconnect from everything worldly and material.
General rules for fortune telling (for all methods)
Of course, for each specific fortune telling for your betrothed, you need to follow specific recommendations. But at the same time, there are specific rules that must be followed in order to obtain reliable information. First of all, it is imperative to ensure silence in the room where the ceremony is planned to be held. There should be no distractions during the ritual. Therefore, it is better to turn off all communication devices and remove pets from the room.
During fortune telling, you need to be in a relaxed state and in a positive mood. Any internal tension will be a hindrance. You cannot cross your arms or legs, as this serves as a barrier to the opening energy channel of communication between the other world and reality.
Before fortune telling, you need to wash off your makeup and loosen your hair. It is recommended to carry out the ceremony in loose, light-colored clothing. The main thing is that its cut does not include any ties or belts. It is also necessary to remove all jewelry.
In order to see your betrothed, you need to do fortune telling alone. In addition, it is necessary to observe the sacrament of the ritual. That is, no one should know that you are planning to resort to magic. Otherwise, the result of fortune telling is unlikely to be true.
With full concentration during the ritual, you will definitely be able to see the face of your betrothed. Therefore, you need to prepare for this so as not to be afraid. And the main thing to remember is that only sincere faith in magic will help you get a true result.
Free fortune telling at home
There are a huge number of different rituals that you can perform yourself at home. To choose the right fortune telling, you need to carefully read its rules and recommendations. It is important to feel that the chosen option is close to you, and with the help of such a ritual you will be able to see your betrothed.
The simplest rituals
In connection with all of the above, if you really want to see your betrothed, you should use only absolutely safe magical methods.
You can put a vase of delicious jam at the head of your bed and say:
“I have all the sweetness! Today I will not only dream of a betrothed, but there will also be no end to suitors.”
Fortune telling is very popular, which answers the question of whether a girl will get married this year.
To do this, on a clear, cloudless night, you need to hang a dry white towel out the window with the words:
“Come, my betrothed mummer, and dry yourself.”
If the towel is dry in the morning, then you should not count on marriage in the near future, but a wet towel indicates that a wedding will happen soon.
Very often, ordinary playing cards are used to tell fortunes about a betrothed. With their help, you can get a description of the person who is destined for you. The most reliable is considered to be ancient Polish fortune telling, which uses a deck consisting of 17 cards. These are cards starting from sevens and ending with tens, as well as an additional queen, symbolizing you.
The process of fortune telling consists of carefully shuffling a mini-deck of cards and starting laying them out until your card falls out. The next card in the layout will represent the betrothed.
Interpret it as follows:
- The Seven of Hearts means that a calm and confident person will be next to you. He will be very sociable and you can completely trust him. But it should be taken into account that such a person will always strive to be the center of attention and in order to keep him near you you must always remain mysterious.
- The seven of diamonds indicates the impermanence of a person. He always makes decisions on the fly, without thinking through the possible consequences. It will not be easy to get along with him, as he changes his habits and preferences very often.
- The Seven of Spades portends a conservative betrothed. His life principle is power and strength. He can only be close to a woman when it is beneficial for him.
- The Seven of Clubs indicates that in life you will meet a constantly doubting, cowardly man. He will worry about every little thing, and he will always need support.
- The Eight of Hearts foretells a meeting with a proud but patient man. He always knows how to behave correctly in any situation.
- The Eight of Diamonds indicates that you should prepare to meet a simple and straightforward man. He is trusting and loves the truth, but at the same time he cannot be considered naive.
- The Eight of Clubs indicates a fateful meeting with an optimist. Despite the fact that the man is haunted by troubles, he never loses heart.
- The Eight of Spades indicates that there will be a smart, but slightly boring person nearby.
- The Nine of Hearts foretells a meeting with a good-natured but distrustful person.
- The Nine of Diamonds indicates that your betrothed will be a very rich man.
- The Nine of Clubs predicts a meeting with a business-like, hardworking and wise person.
- The Nine of Spades indicates that you will meet a dangerous individual on your way. Perhaps such a person has natural psychological problems.
- The Ten of Hearts foretells a meeting with a real gentleman who can become the ultimate dream.
- The ten of diamonds emphasizes that the betrothed will be an energetic workaholic.
- The ten of clubs indicates that you will meet a person who likes to take risks.
- The ten of spades portends a meeting with a self-confident and very wealthy person. He is selfish and will always strive to satisfy his own desires.
With the help of various fortune telling, you can find out the name of your betrothed. The most common way is to go out on Christmas night and ask the first man you meet his name. This is what your betrothed will be called.
Another popular fortune telling involves the use of a knife. To do this, you first need to draw a circle on a piece of paper and write all the letters of the alphabet around the circle. Then you need to place the knife in the center and twist it. Whichever letter the tip of the knife points to, the name of the betrothed will begin with it. If you are a person with strong energy, then you can continue fortune telling and try to read the full name of your betrothed.
On one of the Christmas nights, you should write notes with men's names on pieces of paper and roll them into tubes, which must be placed under the pillow. After this you should go to bed. When you wake up in the morning, you need to pull out one of the notes. The name written in it will be the name of the betrothed.
In a dream
During the holidays, any dream can be prophetic, the main thing is to carry out all the preparatory steps correctly. The basic rule for all fortune-telling about a betrothed in a dream is that after a special ceremony has been performed, you cannot talk to anyone.
For those with long hair, you can perform this ritual. You need to focus on the desire to see your loved one and re-braid the braid. After this, its end needs to be threaded into a small padlock and locked with a key.
And say these words:
“Betrothed, my mummer, I call you, come to me to ask for the key and open the lock.”
Then you should put the key under the pillow. Next, you need to fall asleep as quickly as possible.
On the mirror
Fortune telling on the mirror will always allow you to see the image of your betrothed. But you should know that such fortune telling is very dangerous and you should be mentally prepared for it. When you are alone in a separate room, you need to close the curtains tightly. Mirrors need to be placed so that their mirror surfaces form a virtual corridor. Then you need to sit in front of the mirrors and take a closer look at the reflection.
In full concentration the following words are pronounced:
“Betrothed, my mummer, come to dinner with me.”
The fact that the image of the betrothed will soon appear in the corridor will be indicated by the fact that the candle flame begins to dim. It is important not to be frightened and to carefully examine the image of a person who appeared in the depths of the corridor.
When you realize that you have remembered everything, you need to say the following words:
“Cheers out of this place, mind you.”
For the betrothed mummer
There are many variants of fortune-telling that use a magical spell-call to attract a betrothed-mummer to yourself. The most famous is a ritual in which the additional attributes are a medium-sized mirror and a candle. You can tell fortunes using this method any day, but you need to do it in absolute solitude and preferably away from other people. For example, you can use a bathhouse or other temporary building on a country site for this.
Exactly at midnight you need to come there, strip naked, set a candle and mirrors in front of you. Any sources of artificial lighting must be turned off.
After this, you need to carefully look into the mirror and say the following magic words:
“Betrothed, my mummer, show yourself to me in the mirror.”
After some time, the candle will begin to crackle, and the mirror surface will begin to fade and the man’s face will appear in it. This is the betrothed.
After you remember its main features, you should say:
“This place is crazy.”
After this, the face will disappear and the mirror surface will be cleansed. It is important not to be afraid during the ceremony, as this can lead to evil spirits breaking through into the real world and beginning to harm the fortuneteller.
At night before bed
Rituals that are performed at night before bed are very popular. For one of the rituals, you need to eat salty food before going to bed and then not drink water, even if you are very thirsty.
When going to bed, you need to say the following words:
“Betrothed, my mummer, I’m calling you, come to me, give me a drink.”
After this, you will definitely dream of a young man who will give you water in a dream and in the real world will become your destiny.
Another ritual that uses four kings can also be performed.
They need to be put under the pillow at night and said:
“Betrothed, my mummer, dream of me.”
It is important to remember which king you dreamed about:
- Diamonds mean that the guy will be desirable.
- Chervovy foretells a young and wealthy groom.
- The club sign indicates that the future husband will be a military man or a businessman.
- Peak indicates that the betrothed will be a jealous person of advanced age.
Using a comb or comb
You can also tell fortunes for your betrothed using a comb or comb. In this case, you should not comb your hair before going to bed.
Putting the comb under the pillow, you need to say the following magic words:
“Betrothed, my mummer, come to me and comb my hair.”
According to professional magicians, if the day for the ceremony was chosen successfully and all recommendations were followed with precision, then the betrothed will definitely dream about it and his face will be visible.
There is a ritual with a comb, with the help of which you can predict the appearance of your betrothed in your life. To do this, you need to comb your hair when you wake up and pay attention to how many hairs are left on the comb.
They should be interpreted like this:
- One hair predicts a meeting with your betrothed in the near future, so you need to take a close look at the men in your environment.
- Two hairs indicate that soon you will receive news that will be connected in a certain way with your betrothed.
- Three hairs warn of a rival who will interfere with the meeting with the betrothed.
- Four hairs focus attention on troubles that may happen in the near future.
If there are more than five hairs on the comb, this indicates that measures need to be taken to improve the health of the hair. And, therefore, fortune telling should be postponed to another time.
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What days are the best to guess?
The best are considered to be Christmas fortune-telling for the betrothed during the winter holidays from Christmas to Epiphany.
The next time for fortune telling is the summer holiday of Ivan Kupala ( John the Baptist, Kupala night). This is done the night before the holiday, from midnight until the first roosters, that is, until approximately 4 o'clock in the morning.
You can tell fortunes from Thursday to Friday, but such fortune-telling has less power, since weekdays associated with everyday affairs reduce our sensitivity to signs from the other world. On such days it is much more likely that the prediction will not come true.
In order for holiday fortune-telling to be a success, it is important to remain in the mood for the peculiarity of this time, listen to yourself and try to grasp the connection with the world of magic. If you spend Christmas time as usual - work, do household chores - and do not try to break the daily routine, the likelihood of correct fortune telling is very low.
It is not for nothing that the ancient traditions of fortune telling chose holidays as the best time for contact with other forces: without being distracted by the mundane and material, the fortuneteller could rely on the signs received as truthful information, not clouded by everyday problems.
If you are planning fortune telling for your betrothed for Christmas, stick to traditions: fast for at least some time, take a break from worries about earning money, watch less TV, don’t talk on the phone, and avoid noisy companies on the eve of fortune telling.
The next day after fortune telling, do not communicate with strangers or people you barely know, do not swim or wash your hair.
Fortune telling for the betrothed with questions
Of course, you may be interested in all the details: what kind of character your future husband will have, what he looks like, whether he is rich or poor, a fellow countryman or a foreigner, and also how you will get along with him. Be prepared right away that it’s impossible to find out everything in detail, and it’s not worth it - always leave space for fate to maneuver, of course, in your favor.
Traditional questions that girls have been asking during fortune telling for centuries:
- Will you get married soon or will you have to wait?
- Who is the groom - a wealthy man or a poor man, penniless?
- Which of your friends will get married first?
- Will married life be peaceful and smooth or will it be filled with quarrels and suffering?
- Which of the prospective grooms will become the husband?
- what is the groom's name?
Some questions need hints, for example, when you need to identify a candidate for the role of a husband. In this case, you need to offer fortune telling the name of the desired man, names from your environment and several names that your friends do not have.
You should not be tempted by names that are not found in your area or are outdated, just as you should not guess with obviously impossible options (a Hollywood actor, a politician or a long-dead celebrity).
How to tell fortunes with your friends
Fortune telling in a group is one of our traditional, primordially Slavic women's rituals. Who can participate?
Firstly, all interested parties, that is, those who will ask questions. Secondly, most often these are unmarried girls, but it is also possible that an elderly woman participates, who, however, does not tell fortunes for herself, but only helps to carry out the ritual. Children are not allowed, boys and girls do not come together.
There is an unspoken rule: rivals in love tell their fortunes separately, and here, naturally, there is nothing to comment on.
Get in touch with the magical world
One of the most important conditions for successful fortune telling is the right mood and attitude towards your actions. Avoid guessing for fun, and not out of fear that you will be punished by “offended” spirits, but simply because you will waste time and strengthen your skepticism about the action - next time it will be much more difficult to tune in.
In order for any fortune telling to give the correct answer to your questions, you need to think through your situation in advance and memorize the questions you have chosen verbatim. Make sure that the answers “yes” or “no” exhaust your question, that is, do not allow ambiguity.
By the way, you cannot write down questions unless the note is involved in the ritual as one of the magical objects.
You should cast aside doubts, do not laugh or joke, it is better to guess silently, except for casting the necessary spells. Excitement or fear will do you no good. It is best to abandon problems, your everyday mood and do everything as if you were someone else.
How to get an answer in a dream
The magical use of dreams dates back to time immemorial, and a special attitude towards information that comes to us in a dream continues to this day. How to use this amazing time of night rest to find out your future and your destiny?
Preparing for fortune telling for your betrothed in a dream. Put on your night clothes inside out, change the sheet to the other side, turn the pillow towards your feet instead of the headboard - go to bed “in reverse”.
Lock-key. Braid one braid, attach a closed lock (padlock) to it, and hide the key under the pillow. Having said to the betrothed “ Come to me and ask for the key", go to bed immediately. In the morning, remember which of the men you dreamed about.
A thimble of salt. At night, eat a little salt from a thimble. Say to your betrothed “ Come give me some water to drink", Go to bed. The image of your future husband will appear in a dream.
Bridge. Buy, without haggling, a new broom, take out three twigs from it, and braid it. Before going to bed, put it under the pillow and say to your betrothed “ Come, take me across the bridge" Go to bed immediately and try to remember your betrothed in your dream.
Fortune telling on objects
These methods are ideal for a group of girls because the number of objects that participate in the ritual is unlimited and can provide a choice for everyone present. It is better to take new or at least cleaned items.
After fortune telling, all items must be either thrown away or cleaned and kept closed in a box or closet for 7 days for cleansing.
With rings and cereal. At Christmas, cereals (with whole grains) are poured into a large bowl, preferably more, and many different rings are placed - simple, gold, silver, with stones.
Each girl pulls out a handful of cereal without looking and looks: no ring - the wedding is not this year, a simple one - for a poor man, a silver or gold one - for a successful person, with a stone - for a rich man.
On matches.
Think of the name of the guy you like. Pull out two matches, stick them on the sides of the box and set it on fire. If the burnt matches are bent towards each other, it means that very soon the feelings will be mutual. On wreaths of fresh flowers.
On the eve of Ivan Kupala, go to the river. Every girl should make herself a wreath of grass and flowers and put it on the water. Whose swims faster will be the first to get married. If the river doesn’t accept the wreath (it washes it to the shore), then you won’t get married this year. Notes with names